Multiple Sclerosis and Volunteering
Volunteering has really pulled me out of my multiple sclerosis shell. Many times I feel like I want to hide or do things that won't call attention to my multiple sclerosis. I am a little embarrassed about the disease and I am not as functional as the regular person. It is crazy what this multiple sclerosis does to your pysche.
However, I have found that volunteering pulls me out of this shell. It has also made me better able to deal with situations that I am not socially prepared for... I was never good with people who were in chairs or walked with canes. Now being on the other side, I realize that everyone has a disability. With some people it is a little more visible on the outside -- with others it is not.
I ran into an acquaintance I had met while volunteering almost a year ago. She did not remember me but I remembered her. Ordinarily, I would not go up to someone at church (I am always hiding). However, I thought that she might be less comfortable than me so I reached out to her at church and we were both so glad! Hopefully, she felt a little better about herself and maybe stopped thinking for just a minute that she stuck out and I was certainly excited about a future friend.
Volunteering with the National Multiple Sclerosis Society made this all possible. I forced myself to come out of my shell and help them. However, it has paid off much more for me in the long run. So give of yourself, you just might get something back!
